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This is the weekly bulletin for
The Richmond 
Sunrise Rotary Club 
for August 11, 2022 

Miscellaneous

 
Repeat from last week or until no longer relevant or until I delete it:  
 
 
 
Exchange student Max is arriving August 16th . We would love a group at the airport to meet him.   See Sam's email. 
 
 
Zoom Meeting Rules
 
THE LINK TO OUR THURSDAY MEETINGS WILL NO LONGER BE EMAILED BUT ACCESSED THROUGH THE LINK BELOW.
 
Meeting ID: 868 5522 9058
Passcode: 473892
 
1) Mute your microphone if you aren't already muted. Background noise is distracting. 
2) If you are not engaged in the presentation, turn off your camera. 
3) Chat function should only be used to address the speaker, not for Club member remarks during the presentation
4) Unmute when harassing the Sergeant at Arms or taking your turn during Sergeant at Arms.
 
 
Please direct any questions to the President or a board member of your choosing and we will discuss any and all questions or concerns during our board meeting. Also please refer anyone who may be interested in attending a meeting or joining the club.
 
Be kind and be calm and safe...
 
 
INSPIRATIONAL QUOTE
 
 
From Debbie Samsom and ‘anonymous’
“To plant a garden is to believe in tomorrow”
 
 
VISITORS     
 
Al Sakai
 
 
ANNOUNCEMENTS
 
Thanks to Pat for bringing the Jamaican patties!
Thanks to Debbie M. for hosting the board meeting this week.
 
Social Committee Meeting after this meeting – see notes at end of bulletin
 
Max's flight arrives August 16th 10 AM.
Bill asks us to sign up for greeting Max next Tuesday at the airport.
 

sergeant At Arms Tidbits

Dalbir reminds us it’s Blair’s birthday on Saturday.  Dalbir's Rolls Royce works only 7/10 times for weddings, and he’s driving it this week.  Both for his own, and his daughter’s wedding it broke down or blew up.  Yay for British engineering!
Marg went to the Parq Hotel for dinner, like grownups!  They were at Green Lake this week, not too rustic with lots of appliances, and went kayaking and swimming.  They just missed the road being washed out!
Bill has family in town from Minneapolis as their son is getting married.  Everyone gets a jar of pickles as a gift.  Marg was impressed.
Debbie M. was on a road and bike trip to Victoria, feeling a little nervous in traffic, doing about 100 km.  She has started paddling again, needs to work off the extra weight gained while not paddling.  Her granddaughter is 10 months old yesterday.  She is going to a funeral this morning for her daughter’s cousin, and it has been a week of being with family and high emotions.
Judy hasn’t been doing any of the sports, but continues to eat (but she looks fabulous as always).  There have been dinners and lunches this week, including with Ralph’s former partners.  They are leaving Saturday for the traditional week in Oliver with the whole family – this time the two older boys are driving up with Judy as she has the newer car. 
Peter leaves Sunday morning for fishing at Puntzi Lake, past Williams Lake, and will need to take a different route because of the highway washout. 
Gordon didn’t do anything last week or this week. (We don't believe him).
Peachy thanks Gordon and Pat for mentoring.  She went to a summer music and arts festival and enjoyed the fitness dancing, food and seeing old friends. 
Pat was at Pat Quinn’s last Saturday where they had extra tables on the grass!  She is going out for lunch today.  Seems to be a theme of eating too much!
Bobby was zooming from home.  Last week he and his wife got Covid at one of the wedding events.  He is feeling fine, but isolating.  His daughter passed her driver’s license at age 24, and won’t need to use Dad as her driver anymore.
Carolyn is at the end of semester, a busy time again at KPU.  She took a break last week to go see the babies in Victoria, then will be working like mad until September.
Chris B. is in Long Beach California with 2 grandsons.  They had a neighbourhood party for 25 last night, so she is thankful to be up this morning.  Her granddaughter comes from Alberta next week.
Larry has a dreadful cold, not Covid, due to the ventilation at his office which shoots him in the head.  He had a Birch Bay birthday with champagne and birthday cake.  Last night he went to GoodCo on the Steveston waterfront, with fabulous food.  Today he is going to a friend’s funeral in White Rock.  Later today he gets news from the surgeon about dates for his operation.  We’re all thinking about you, Larry, and sending warm wishes.
Susan has an ear infection and has been off work, on antibiotics so is not moving much except on the zoom screen.  She has nothing to report from this week and hopes to be in person next week as she will be on holidays.
Garth’s visitors have left and after cleaning the house, he didn’t know what to do with himself.
Elena is back after a month in the Philippines where the rotarians were very hospitable.  There were vans of rotarians on an island entertaining her and showing her schools where she distributed supplies.  She gave to 100s of school children – food, used clothing, books, pens, etc.  She’s glad to be back in Canada.  She’ll start collecting items again soon as it takes about a year to get enough together for another trip.
Michael was a tacky tourist with his visitors and went to Playland.  He doesn’t really like the rides (or swimming pools) and had to go on the little rides and found them scary too!  They visited Stanley park and the pier at White Rock.  This week he is at a wedding at Kent Washington, Lakeside at the Hyatt.  It has been a slow week at the hall so he is catching up.
Mary Lou thanks Debbie M. for hosting the board meeting.  Mary Lou went dragon boating with her guest’s group that bought it at the auction and had a great evening!  Oscar comes back Friday from Ontario, where he’s been eating lots and swimming in the lake.  She says it’s great to see Al Sakai, who was taught by her dad, industrial education in Steveston.
Chris M. is on dog duty and was distracted so forgot to lock her car overnight and it was “visited” and stuff strewn all over.  Nothing taken as there was nothing of value to take. 
Debbie S. loves summer and loved the salads at the board meeting. 
Debbie T. is getting ready for the Tour du Cure on the 27th in Chilliwack, a 100 km ride and booked an air BnB with a friend.  One rider wanted to practise riding last night, so Debbie went with her, starting at 5 p.m. at Tugboat Annie’s for the Richmond loop – about 50 km. 
Melinda sends all our good thoughts and prayers to Larry.  She has fabulous news about John’s cancer which hasn’t spread and they’re waiting for the surgery date.  The waiting for news is the worst part.  She sympathizes with Carolyn about missing the grandchildren, but also about being exhausted, which is the way with grandchildren.  They are waiting for the third grandchild in October. 
 
SPEAKER
 
Al Sakai, retired Richmond teacher and principal, is busier than ever.
Upon arriving, he was so happy to see how many people he knew here.
He was happy to share his Steveston story as well as his life philosophy.
Al thanked us for the Paul Harris award although is embarrassed to receive an individual award because he always promotes teamwork.  He was assured that The Steveston Society would also receive an award.
He thanked us for the introduction and for the opportunity to listen to the Sergeant at Arms sharing, which made him feel comfortable, as he heard the genuine love and care that exists in our club.  Everything in the world is about love or lack of love.
When things go awry, it’s usually because people are feeling excluded, or not welcomed.  Sometimes it’s an arm around the shoulder or even tough love that will help others accept difficult situations.
Everything Al does in society and in the community is based on love.  There are infinite ways to show love.  He is hoping for the best for Larry and Melinda’s John.
Because he believes that at the base of everything is love, he relished his role as a school principal, caring for kids, staff and parents in the community, especially at Hamilton where the people sometimes felt excluded, being so far away.  Christmas concerts out there were tremendous and he felt loved and appreciated.
 
Al spent his entire life in Steveston, going to Lord Byng and Steveston High School.  He only knew about fishing or schools, so rather than standing in fish guts for the rest of his life, he decided to become a teacher.
He was involved in judo for 50 plus years and is now president of the club.  This year is the 50th anniversary of the cultural arts centre.
His two daughters are Alanna and Carly and he has two grandsons, Wade and Remi, so there is a lot of drama and joy.
Carly’s new baby is 6 months old, and the family lives with Al at the front of the house, with 90 year old mom at the back.
Retirement is the best invention – better than the wheel or fire.  How wonderful to be able to enjoy life.  His mom says, that, in spite of the internment years, Canada is still the best place.  His mom still speaks Japanese, and could live every day only speaking Japanese. 
The Steveston Community Society has a board to run it, making decisions on finances, programming, budgeting and park areas, etc., with a vision to try to keep Steveston in its pioneer spirit.
Al is also president of the Richmond Agricultural and Industrial society, which is 100 years old and looks after the salmon festival, market, and other activities.  Why they are separate?  Al doesn’t know, but he knows that there are double meetings!
The Market has 50-60 vendors, with 120 on a waiting list they can’t fit in.  There are 10 markets from May to September, collecting $2000 every week from vendor fees, but what is most important is bringing the community together, with people meeting people, it is more a gathering place than a commercial event.  Richmond City put up booths last time to show plans for the new community center and dyke plans.  Al is feeling good about the plans. 
This year the Salmon Festival (75th) (missed 2 years during Covid) was throughout the village, with zones, spread out entertaining and people felt safe and there was plenty of room for the 80-100 000 people.  Many said they missed the parade and the chow mein booth. They’ll need extra help for next year (so keep your eyes and ears open for help requests). 
We can go to Let’s talk Richmond for information on new projects, including the new community centre. The current community centre was built on funds raised by the original salmon festival and was built when Japanese Canadians came back from the internment, so their children had a place to play together.  At that time, the Caucasian community wanted to build it together, and the Japanese community held on to their vision of rooms for judo and kendo.
Back in those days, the returning Japanese population was menaced with segregation but the teachers and community of the time fought for integration.  The children all played together, white and Japanese, a great example of cultures coming together and respecting each other.  What a good reason to continue the Salmon Festival as a symbol of that coming together. 
There is also a Playground project underway, which started 12 years ago and requires lots of meetings.  For Al, it feels like so much is going on!
 
Al shared the data collected through the MDI research (middle schools demographic information) wherein the B.C. Government, together with school districts, surveys students to find out how they are doing.  You can download some of the results for Grades 5 and 8 at   https://earlylearning.ubc.ca/school-district/richmond/
The surveys focus on the social, physical and mental well-being of our children and indicate how important is the work done by Rotary and the Steveston Society to support our children and help them thrive.  There is some Interesting data, with children in Richmond self reporting that 30% feel they are thriving, 30% are somewhat thriving and 40% are not thriving.  This is less optimistic than the provincial results.  It focuses also on optimism, empathy, happiness and the absence of sadness, and while the data says most children are doing fairly well, at least 20% report feeling sad.
How can we help these children?  Connections with adults are important and research tells us that children need at least 3 adults who care about them, which may help them avoid drugs and gangs.  These connections often happen at community centres, clubs and sports teams and schools.  For instance, which teaching judo is important at the judo club, more important is the connections that children make with their instructors.
Research also tells us that there are 4 assets needed for physical, social and mental health: Adult and peer relationships, healthy nutrition, adequate sleep and after-school activities.  This is what we all need. The community centres strive to provide this. 
At the Paul Harris event, Al heard about all the wonderful activities that are being done in the community – making our communities healthier and safer. 
Al is also conscious of the importance of sharing narratives and has a website called Narrativeknowing.com   He thinks about how to organize life – into stories and to use a narrative format to organize one’s life.
In summary,  everything is about love or lack of love. 
Thank you for such an inspirational, narrative presentation, Al! 
 
 
CLUB BUSINESS
 
Max is coming August 16th  - meet him at the airport.  See Sam's email. 
 
Social Committee meeting after the regular meeting:
  1. Pot luck BBQ at Richmond Funeral Home on September 11 from 4 p.m. – 8 p.m. 
A signup for food will be distributed.   Appies, salads, mains and desserts.
BYOB and Larry will supply other drinks.   Debbie T. will get the beverage license and Larry has the ‘serve it right.’
  1. Future events – an email will come asking for ideas.  For instance, Thirsty Thursdays, etc.  Something for Hallowe’en, or Christmas? 
      3. Foundation Progressive Dinner possible for November.
 

                                    Meanderings 

An excerpt from the Narrativeknowing.com website:
There are so many kinds of love, so many understandings of love.
The love of a lover. The love of a parent. The love of a friend. The love of man’s best friend. A thousand ways to name and describe love. So many ways to search for love. So many ways to find love.
And, love changes / evolves / grows over time. Young romantic love. Family love. Mature experienced love. Every form that love takes has a power that gives being human purpose and meaning.
So then, what is love? How does one name it? How do you know when you have it?
Perhaps, love is a story that we write, that we create. We are a part of someone’s love story. Each moment, each decision we make, each action we take creates our love story and becomes our life. It is difficult to separate love and life. When we are in love we are in a story of love – yearning and hoping that the other is in with us – all in.
Love is difficult to name. It is difficult to describe. But, the story of a love can be told – He held me so close. She kissed me so softly… And these stories are remembered in the mind and the body. They become emotions and feelings. Through the story love is remembered and felt.
Love is life itself. It lives in each breath we take, each pulse of blood flowing through the veins. When we bleed, love flows. And, love can hurt. Stories of lost love and loneliness abound. And when we are in such a story, we hurt to the core, no matter the age or circumstance. It takes time for such stories to work through. There is no magic solution. We can only hope that we have the resiliency to live them and survive them. And, when that episode is ended we feel wounded but with the help of friends and family and knowing stories of survival exist, we can be wiser and stronger.
Love as a life story. Life as a love story. No easy answers.

                              

Upcoming Events

 
Annual BBQ - September 11, Richmond Funeral Home from 4 p.m. to 8 p.m.  Details to follow. 
 
Friday May 6th 2023 Gala Auction
 
 

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Birthdays & Anniversaries
Member Birthdays
Mark Phillips
August 1
 
Larry Thompson
August 3
 
Christine Marin
August 14
 
Spouse Birthdays
Don Dixon
August 30
 
Anniversaries
Mary Lou Miles
Alan Miles
August 1
 
Mark Phillips
Angelica
August 3
 
Sandra Hass
Brian
August 3
 
Peter Levelton
Jane Levelton
August 25
 
Judy May
Ralph
August 28
 
Brian Cole
Alison
August 31
 
Join Date
Elena Agala
August 2, 2000
22 years
 
Belinda Boyd
August 15, 2001
21 years
 
Bob Shoker
August 15, 2013
9 years
 
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